Tag: New Year

An Unsexy Start to the New Year but at least I have a New Sex Toy to look forward to

Happy New Year! We made it! I hope everyone had a great New Year. I spent the last week of the year in bed thanks to the FLU (Still recovering). I think this might be my last year I go back for the Holidays in New York. It seems like every time we visit, we end up getting sick or with COVID. And not to sound like a COVID hater, but why are people still talking about COVID?

The entire time I was sick, all I heard was Covid this, Covid that, get tested for Covid. I get you can still get COVID but, it seems like everyone has forgotten about the other sicknesses. Like the cold, the flu, your regular itchy throat. Everyone just calm down! I’ve been sick before and I’m going to get through it just like every other times. It’s also going to suck like the other times but that is life! Now, give me some orange juice, water, and Nyquil. Then, leave me alone.

My fun week in New York ended up terribly lonely and unsexy. I couldn’t meet up with my best friend, I couldn’t see my grandparents, I couldn’t see my little cousins and worst of all, I couldn’t workout! I haven’t worked out in a week!!! My butt is literally deflating in front of me! SIGH!! I literally stayed in bed weak as fuck attempting to be productive.

Note to self: when you’re sick, just be sick. You’re not going to be a better person if you do something while you are sick.

That’s something I want to work on in 2023. Just letting things be and sitting with it. That goes with my feelings, silence, and the uncomfortable. I just want to experience it all.

My boyfriend was sick too so we ended up celebrating New Years Eve eating chicken noodle soup and watching Zootopia. Also, was it just in Chicago or did it feel like no one had the energy to celebrate the end of the year? I didn’t see any New Year decorations anywhere. Oh and don’t get me started on the local news celebration out here. It was whack whack whack! No one was jumping or looked excited. It was no NYC ball drop lol. I’m biased!

But I don’t even think New Years in NYC was as good as every other year. I heard there was even an alcohol band on CNN. That’s dumb! Who chooses to celebrate NYE sober? I was sick so I had an excuse.

Because we had no New Year decorations, I made some. Do not judge me! I was working with what I had which was cardboard boxes from presents and gift bags. I’m proud of what I came up considering I was sick.

Okay let me not be such a negative Nancy. Besides having the Flu, I had a wonderful Christmas! I love being around family and watching everyone open their presents. I especially enjoyed opening my presents :P. I can’t believe as an adult I still get presents- really good ones too.

Also in sex news, I had some great welcome home sex back. I thought since I was sick I wouldn’t be able to cum but wow, it’s always the times you least expect it when you cum your hardest. It didn’t matter that I had no taste or no smell, I still came and it was soo good. My boyfriend was so proud of me. The wasn’t going to stop me from getting dick, nope!

While I want to keep this post short since I am still sick, I want to give you something to look forward to. New Sex Toy Alert!!


It’s Cato from VIVE

I’ve never used a rabbit toy before so I’m interested if this actually works. For some reason I’ve always been skeptical using a rabbit vibrator. Something about the bunny ears don’t look like they would do the job. But I’m so ready to find out!

I hope everyone had a safe holiday. It’s 2023, let’s get it!! This is the year!! I can just feel it!

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12 Days of Me!

I saw this idea on girlyjuice.net and thought, what a perfect way to highlight the year and show off your best selfies!

I officially have lived in Chicago for a year now and wow, it has not been an easy transition. There was a lot of crying, fighting with myself, fighting with my boyfriend, comparing Chicago to New York, and a lot of complaining.

Even though it was difficult, the times where I pulled through and learned something on the other side of it made it all worth it. I have learned so much about myself and my capabilities in such a short and fast amount of time. I wouldn’t trade it for anything.

With that being said, I’ve come to find reverence in everything everywhere I go. I no longer try to compare but acknowledge the difference in things and recognize what makes it so special. There is someone out there who has a love for something that you don’t like and I think it’s worth trying to figure out the beauty in that.

I’ve learned that complaining and overthinking gets you nowhere. So, just like this post, I do not want to overthink and just post my damn pics aha. 12 DAYS OF SELFIES LETS DO THIS!

January 2022.

In my dickey that I crocheted. Not meant to be worn like this but you know me, I have to make everything sexy.









February 2022.

My boyfriend and I went to Mexico for our 1 year anniversary. WOW! I can’t believe we’ve been together for a year already. It seems like it was just yesterday we met each other on the streets of LA.

Shout out to Secrets of Akumal! Our favorite resort. We love this place so much that we were here just a couple of months before this.










March 2022

This was the time I started getting into AIR fitness which is using aerial silks. This exercise is both challenging and humbling. Even the most fit person would find this exercise to be difficult.

Dang, look how tiny I was… Definitely my new body goal. This reminds me to always be grateful for the body I have at the moment because I remember even during this time I was complaining about being too skinny..










April 2022

If there is something long, you bet my mouth is going to be at the end of it. It was April here in Chicago and it was still freezing like it was February.

Shoutout to the Boo whos always supporting my hoe poses.











May 2022

Before coming to Chicago, I was burning shrimp, making dry mac and cheese but look at me now. I’m cheffing it up in the kitchen almost every night.

I’m also proud to say that I’ve learned to make filipino food which comes in handy whenever I’m feeling homesick.










June 2022

I was on my crochet game this year. I crocheted this set and a couple of my summer outfits which I was really proud of.

Again, urgh that tan!










Top: Crocheted by me @MADEBYTEETEE on instagram

July 2022

My birthday month! This year we went to Puerto Rico for my birthday. It was everything I asked for when my bf asked me to describe where I wanted to go. I said I want to be surrounded by sexy people, a place with history, I want to dance and a beach.

Puerto Rico was all of that! Besides passing out from dehydration and taking too much edibles, it was one of the best trips we’ve taken so far.

The butts out there?! I think majority of the trip was butt watching. It was amazing.








August 2022

My birthday continued with a trip to Cancun Mexico with my Madre. It was hot as shit out but it was my type of weather. I don’t mind dipping into the ocean to cool down.

This trip forced me to use all of the tools that I’ve learned about life thus far. This was when I realized I was putting pressure on people to be a certain way thinking they had to know everything that I learned. That is not how it works. People are on their own journey and will discover things on their own.








September 2022

Clearly it was still warm in Chicago in September. During this time I put out a crochet pattern for this top. I got 6 sales from this pattern which to me, was a huge success 😛

Look at my sexy man urgh!








October 2022

October was fun! I went back home to celebrate Halloween with the kids. This costume was last minute but I think I killed it! I was having a hard time trying to pose because I was like what the fuck does a Zebra do or how do they even sound?

If we had to go based off the sounds I was making it was between a donkey and horse.







November 2022

November was fun! It was my booboo’s birthday month so it was all about him. We danced, we laughed and we even roller skated in our tiny apartment.











December 2022

Oddly my next favorite month after July because I hate the cold. But I’m a sucker for Holiday festivities like baking, putting up the Christmas tree, going shopping, and Christmas movies!

I’m not too excited for the New Year because it’s just a continuation of what I’m doing now. But I guess since what I’m doing now is going to show results in the next year, I guess that’s something to look forward to.

I hope everyone has the best holidays! Stay safe and wear a condom. You don’t want to get anything you can’t give back in 2021… like herpes…. herpes is for life.


Stay Sexy & Curious!

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