Sexy Valentine’s Day Ideas for your Man

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Every year, Valentine’s Day is portrayed as a woman’s holiday. The pink, the red, the heart shaped chocolates.

I have never seen a commercial or an ad telling me I should get my man a gift to show my appreciation for him.

Valentine’s day is a celebration of love and romance and not with any specific gender. St. Valentine, the man responsible for this holiday, married all types of couples. He married people who couldn’t marry because the leader at the time thought married couples distracted them from being a strong soldier.

It’s 2022 and the last time I checked, there are 13 million female entrepreneurs and still counting in the US alone. AKA we should share the pressure to showing our love for each other on Valentine’s Day. It’s only fair.

So for this Valentine’s Day, we are going to switch it up. Forget the goo goo ga ga lovey dovey stuff and restaurant reservations. I’m going to tell you how you can change up this holiday by making it interesting and sexy for everyone involved. Thank me later.

Fuck his Face

Yep, I’m getting straight to it. Think about it, men love getting their dick sucked especially if they’re being deep throated. If you are someone with a vagina, fuck your partner’s face with with it. You don’t have to lie there and pretend they’re doing a good job, make them do a good job. Try pressing their face against your clit until it’s the right pressure for you. Be in control of your pleasure for a change. Clit owners, get yours this Valentine’s Day!

Grapefruit Technique

Some of you may know about the grapefruit technique from the famous viral video by Auntie Angel or on Girls Trip. If this is new to you, check it out because it will make your day and spike your curiosity. Try the grapefruit technique this Valentine’s day with your partner.

  1. Cut a circle big enough for a hard dick in the middle of the grapefruit.
  2. Before putting the grapefruit on your partner, blindfold him. Tell him to relax. He will not be expecting it which will heighten the moment even more.
  3. Time to get your partner hard. Tease your partner by kissing him on his lips and then slowly make your way down to his dick.
  4. Once he’s hard as a rock, you’ll want to slide the grapefruit on it. He’ll be confused at first but will settle down as soon as you get sucking.
  5. Squeeze, suck, and turn the grapefruit at the same time for an exhilarating experience.

Not only will this be delicious for you but your partner will love it! It’s a win win!

P.S. This does get messy so make sure theres a towel under you.

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Buy Each Other Sex Toys

Ladies, we love when we get sex toys as a present, get your partner a sex toy for a change! If you don’t see anything you think your partner would use, try getting a couples toy. I suggest going to your local sex shop together and exploring your options. This alone can be a fun activity together. Exploring your sexuality doesn’t have to be so traditional. It can and should be fun!


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Masturbate with Each Other

If you and your partner are looking for ways to connect on a deeper (pun intended) level, try masturbating with each other this Valentine’s Day. Throw up some porn, smoke some weed, and start touching yourself in front of each other. If you’re not sure how to start this, try touching your partner while touching yourself at the same time. Once you’ve gotten the “okay”, slowly back away and start feeling yourself. Touch yourself as if you were alone. This a great opportunity for you to learn what makes your partner feel good!

Do Something Personal

Do something personal for your partner this Valentine’s Day. Listen to your partner. What does your partner really need? It’s the unexpected presents that mean the most. If your partner has been complaining about being tired from work, offer a massage. If your partner has been talking about self care, go to Sephora and go on a shopping spree. Or put your face on his boxers and make him walk around in it!

My Face Boxer


Create an Aphrodisiac Menu

If you need help getting in the mood, try creating an aphrodisiac menu. You can get super creative with this. Set the mood with rose petals, candles, and a sexy outfit (Naked preferred.)


List of Aphrodisiacs:

  1. Chocolate
  2. Oysters
  3. Strawberries
  4. Asparagus
  5. Pomegranate
  6. Cinnamon
  7. Sweet Potatoes
  8. Maca
  9. Hot Chillies

Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to involve a typical dinner and heart shaped chocolates. It can be sexy, wild, and full of cum! Remember this holiday is for every body and we should treat it like that.


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