That's What She Said/ January 7, 2023January 9, 2023

Last Minute Christmas Gift Ideas

I can not believe Christmas is literally next week! I don’t even feel like doing any “end of the year” things because the last time I celebrated the end of the year, we ended up in a pandemic for two year. TWO FREAKING YEARS. No, thank you. I’ll just wait and see what happens.

However, the end of the year is separate from Christmas, okay? I love Christmas! Christmas is one of my favorite holidays and it’s not because I still make a Christmas list to send out to my family so I can get everything that I want… But it’s because I love watching people open their presents. Especially the kids! I will forever know their pain when they unwrap a present and it’s a box with clothes in it. *throws to the side* NEXT!

While Christmas is not all about gift giving, it’s a great gesture to show your appreciation for them. Even if it’s as small as a stocking stuffer. It’s the thought that matters and I’m learning that saying is really true. So for you late Christmas shoppers who need last minute gift ideas to give to your sexy person, either your partner, friend, mother, sister, your neighbor, I gotchu! Hurry now, as there are plenty of Holiday sale going on!

Last Minute Christmas Gift ideas

PASTEASE RED BOWS $12

These are the perfect stocking stuffers to end Christmas night in a jolly way. These pasties are wrinkle resistant, waterproof and hypoallergenic. These are also perfect for any occasion if you decide not to use it for Christmas. Think, birthday, Valentines day, anniversary or any day where your present is enough. And let’s face it, that’s everyday. Use my code SEXISH to get 10% off off.

Le Wand Vibrating Necklace $100

Every time I pass through this at a store or online, I always tell myself I’m going to get this. Hopefully I’ll get this as a gift this year 😉 . I’m putting that out there. I love love this. It’s a vibrating necklace but look how discreet it is! No one will ever know what your bathroom break really means. This comes in four colors, silver, rose gold, black and gold. Getting jewelry is already hard enough to get for a woman but this is so simple that it will look amazing on anyone!

TENGA Spinner Beads $27

Tenga products like the eggs or this one is great for a stocking stuffer for your boyfriend. If he’s not big on toys or didn’t even know there were toys for men, he’ll be excited to try this one.

I just saw the idea of putting the eggs as an ornament for your tree and I love that!!

Bejeweled Butt Plug $26.99

Okay rule of thumb, anything with a shine or sparkle is a yes for a Christmas gift! Butt plugs are not only great stocking stuffers but also a great way to break it to your partner that you want to try some butt stuff. Who doesn’t want something shiny in their bootyhole?! I know I do!!!

These also come in tons of colors so you can pick one that is perfect for your partner or you.

Lovehoney X We-Vibe Sweet Seduction Couple’s Sex Toy Gift Set $120

I love gift sets! You get so much for what you pay for. I especially love gifts that are couple friendly so that you can explore each other sexually on another level. So if you’re having a hard time finding something, just look for presents where both of you can have fun.

Sexy Ashtray $40

Sexy presents don’t always mean a sex toy has to be involved. Sexy can even show itself in home items. If your partner is a smoker, something like an ashtray that is out of the ordinary would be the perfect gift!

Photo from The Standard

Body Shaped Candles $22

If you can support a small business this Christmas, you definitely should! Etsy has so many items that you would never find in stores made by real creatives. Like this Dalmatian candle shaped like a body. How sexy? A great gift for women who are into aesthetics.

Photo from GremBathLab

Uberrime Rosae Rose Silicone Grinding Toy

If the person you are buying for is a beginner in their masturbation journey, try giving them a grinding toy. This is great for people who are intimidated by vibrators, suction toys, and dildos. They’re so pretty and delicate looking.

If the person you know isn’t into delicate and pretty, there are also options out there with dragon tongues!

Photo from Spectrum Boutique

Seat of the Soul by Gary Zukav

You know whats more sexy than being physically sexy? Being mentally and emotionally stable! When I say stable, I mean, someone who is present and aware of their emotions. No one is “stable” but there is a difference between people who react and respond. This book right here is my bible to life! I recommend this book to everyone because it changed my outlook on life.

I am more happy and more aware of what is love and what is fear.

I think sharing this new perspective in life is a gift itself. So, if not a book for your person, gift yourself this. You deserve this too!

Gift Card

Gift cards may not be the most thoughtful gift but if this is last minute, a gift card will do. Put the gift card in their stocking, in their Christmas Card, or even hang it on the tree to make it look cute!

Some places even have digital gift cards so maybe you can even surprise them with an email. Make sure to let them know that it is not a spam and that yes, you are giving them a gift card to buy sex toys.

List:

– anything from LELO

– Glass dildo

– Satisfyer Pro 2

– Inya the Rose

– Mini Magic Wand

– Double ended dildo

– Lingerie from Kiki De Montparnasse

– Edible body paint

– Butt plug

I hope everyone has the best holidays! Let me know down in the comments or in my DMs what gifts you ended up buying for your sexy person!

Stay Sexy & Curious

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Disclaimer: Many of the links provided are affiliate links which means that I may get commission if you purchase something using the link on my website. (Thank you in advance) This is at no cost to you at all. I only share things that I believe would help one in their sexual journey. All my opinions and advice are my own. I am not a doctor or therapist so if you have any real life concerning questions, I am not the one.

Sextails/ January 7, 2023January 9, 2023

Sacred Squirter by Yoni Palace Review

Happy Thursday!

The moment you’ve all been waiting for, or not but I have, is finally The Sacred Squirter by Yoni Palace review. I briefly talked about the unboxing of the toy and how I came to find it back in May.

Recap:

– I found this toy browsing on Instagram

– The founder of Yoni Palace is HOT, (Rosie Rees)

– The name of the toy sold me

– This product came from Australia

Who:

Yoni Pleasure Palace is a luxurious online retailer of pleasure wands, yoni eggs, waterproof sex blankets and feminine wellness products.

Their mission is to help women strengthen their pelvic floors in order to “inspire women to slow down (and squirt!).”

What:

The Sacred Squirter is a tongue shaped glass dildo. It’s curves and bumps are designed to help vagina owners hit their G-spot. The dildo is hand blown and made with borosilicate glass. Think beakers, flasks and other glass materials used in a laboratory. This means that it is temperature responsive in which the toy will not shatter under extreme heat or extreme cold aka perfect for TEMPERATURE PLAY.

First Impression:

Opening the package to my Sacred Squirter, I immediately felt like my chakras were jumping with excitement. It felt and looked sacred.

Once I got over how beautiful it was and started to think about using it, I was a little intimidated by the glass, the shape, and the ridges. Before the Sacred Squirter, I had never used a glass dildo before. If anything, I was just getting comfortable playing with my dildos. But if I learned anything from my dildo experience, it’s all about quality that makes a toy worth it which is what I felt immediately when I held it in my hands. I had bought the Sacred Squirter for $94 at the time which now has dropped to $69! Still pricey but quality is expected with that price.

The shape didn’t scare me so much more than turn me on. If you can use your imagination and picture your partner or someone you think is hot with that tongue, urgh you’d melt! I don’t know about you but I would be very eager to find out what that mouth can do.

As for the ridges, I was a little skeptical. I’ve had toys where it came with different texture heads and never found them useful or pleasurable.

Preparation

After a month of having it, I decided to finally give it a try. I knew when I was ready to try the toy, I wanted to be intentional with it. That meant doing it when I was in an exploring type of mood. I think when it comes to squirting there are two things that are a must to achieve it. One, your mind and how relaxed it is. If your mind is on what class you’re going to take on classpass the next day, you’ll never get there. Second, is giving yourself permission to let go. That means losing control and having 0 expectations of what is to come (pun intended). Be open to squirting and be open to failing. Just tell yourself whatever happens it’s going to be okay.

DUN DUN DUNN (I tried it!)

Okay, it’s time. I’m horny. I’m in an exploring type of mood. I’m alone in the apartment. The moment is perfect.

I get everything I need to prepare for this moment. I have my Sacred Squirter, I have my Satisfyer pro (just incase I need assistance), a towel, laptop, and LUBE!

First, I put on porn I like. Then I used my hands to start to teasing myself. I caress my thighs, my stomach, my boobs, and then lightly around my pussy. As soon as I started to feel myself getting wet, I grabbed my Sacred Squirter and started rubbing it against my pussy. Up and down, side to side. Already, I’m feeling a sensation that I’ve never felt before. I’ve used vibrators and dildos to rub my pussy with in the past but this felt different. It was a combination of how heavy the glass was, the ridges and the temperature of the glass. It slid around my pussy effortlessly.

URGH! If that’s how it felt outside of my pussy I couldn’t wait to feel it inside. When I first put it in, the feeling was almost too intense and it was probably because my G-spot was gorging from just the rubbing.

I had to slow it down. I found that taking my time with it was more pleasurable than jamming it in as I would normally do with a dildo. The ridges and the shape of the dildo was hitting the spot perfectly. It was surprisingly very comfortable as most G-spot toys aren’t for me.

Every second of the experience was exhilarating. One of my favorite parts of the toy is that there is an indent in the middle of the tongue where you can see your squirt piling.

Let’s be real, not all of us is a “squirter” where we pee out a fountain. Some of us are gushers where your cum squeeze out like the candy fruit gushers. However you end up cuming, I’m sure you will be able to see your results on the toy. And if you’re anything like me you like to see your hard work.

Did I squirt?

I’ve never been a squirter. All of the guys that I’ve been with have always said something similar whenever I came which was ” a liquid poured out/gushed out.” So I wasn’t surprised when I didn’t get my pornstar squirt moment. But I am not going to let that bring me down. I will try and try until I get it which is not the worst thing to keep on attempting.

How to use it?

There is no right or wrong way to use this toy. I’ve used this toy alone and with my partner. There is no experience that is better than the other in my opinion. I both love to masturbate alone and with my partner.

I do bring this out on more sensual moments as I do not want to drop this toy because crazy can get too crazy sometimes.

Is this for you?

If you are curious about squirting, this toy is for you. I feel that everything about the structure of this glass dildo helps you in achieving that. Also, if you don’t own a glass toy , I suggest that you give it a try. You’ll be surprised with the different sensations you feel versus what you feel from any other toy.

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Glass Toy alternatives

While there are plenty of glass toy alternatives it is important that you do your own research on them. You want to make sure that you are getting your toys from a trusted company and that they are using body safe materials. So be careful when choosing toys that are “cheap.”

I hope this review was helpful! I really enjoyed and still am enjoying this toy till this day. Man, I might have to use it after I get off here. I’m all hot and bothered from my own review! 😂

Stay Sexy & Curious!

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Sexpert/ January 7, 2023January 9, 2023

Masturbating Sex Toys for Beginners

Okay I’m realizing not everyone started masturbating at the age of 12 like I did but, hey the fact that you’re starting now is all that matters. I’m so proud of you for even having the curiosity of pleasure!

Masturbating means to stimulate ones own genitals for sexual pleasure.

Masturbating means to stimulate ones own genitals for sexual pleasure. Keyword here is “sexual pleasure” and that definition is different for everyone. One way of masturbating can turn someone on while it can turn someone else off.

Masturbating is amazing in that there are so many ways you can masturbate!

You can take it old school and use your hands, use toys, do it with a partner, or use household objects like pillows, etc. There’s an infinite way of masturbating and there is no right way. It’s worth to try all the ways until you find something you find extreme pleasure in.

Not only does masturbating come with great health benefits but I find it helps with your self-esteem and your sex life. With masturbating you’re essentially touching yourself and giving yourself pleasure because you want to feel good. You feel you deserve to feel good. It’s time for you to worship your body. When you love your body, you tend to take care of it more and make sure that nothing bad happens to it.

When you masturbate, you also figure out what feels good for you. This can be great when it comes to having sex with your partner. You’ll know what works for you instead of lying there and having to pretend you like what he’s doing when you don’t. You’ll be able to take charge and say “Nope. I like it this way!”

Unfortunately, some of us grew up being told masturbating was wrong and disgusting and it’s just not true. We all do it! There’s some who do it everyday, once a week, once a month and sometimes never which is also okay. As long as you’re not doing it because someone told you it’s bad then it’s all good!

Planned Parenthood lists some benefits of masturbating…

release sexual tension
reduce stress
help you sleep better
improve your self-esteem and body image
help treat sexual problems
relieve menstrual cramps and muscle tension
strengthen muscle tone in your pelvic and anal areas

Now time for my list! If you’re new to masturbating touching yourself with your bare hands can be awkward at first. Although, I do recommend you touching yourself that way first, it’s not ideal for some. Luckily for you, there are toys out there for everyone! The toys listed below range from comfortability all the way to power that a new masturbator can with stand.

I recommend this toy to all my friends who are looking for a new addition to their toy chest. It’s a must have! I take this bad boy out whenever I’m in a sexy mood. I love that this has 11 different intensities so if you’re new to the masturbating game, you can still feel the air pulse without it being so overbearing. I can’t wait for when you are ready for that intense setting though. Wooooooo. Oh last thing, this toy is waterproof! You can take this in the shower which makes the experience 100x better.

The price on this isn’t bad at all, I think it’s pretty reasonable. You can even use my discount code SEXISH on Shopsedure.com to get 10% off your order.

While this toy is disposable, it’s a great toy for beginners who’s experimenting with different sensations. This toy is 98% water which gives you another feel besides silicone. You can warm it in your hands or put in the fridge for temperature play.

Introducing LELO’s new toy, LELO DOT. Did you know masturbating doesn’t have to only be with your pussy? You can masturbate touching your titties, your stomach, your arms, whatever brings you pleasure. I love that this toy is different. Unlike other vibrators with a penis like shaped head, it has a pointy end which makes it easier to reach erogenous zones like your neck, behind your ear, your nipples, and in between your thighs. If you want to tease yourself before you get into it, this is the toy!

If it’s the scary shapes of toys that scare you to masturbate, try toys from Cute Little Fuckers. This toy shape allows you to easily grip it from behind as you move it along your body. Masturbating can be cute too!

Dame products is know for its simple design. Most of their toys don’t even look like vibrators which makes it easy to get away with if you forget to put it away after a session. This is great for beginners as it only has 3 speed variations. This takes fingering to another level. The pleasure is limitless.

I hope that you can find the perfect toy for you on your sexual journey. There are so many out there that it might take you a while to find the perfect one. But, what no one talks about is that the journey to finding one is actually the fun part! Part 2 of this post will be different ways to masturbate without a toy! How exciting?

Stay Sexy & Curious!

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